One of the things about me that I think scares people

It is the fact that when some one is talking about something I always feel the urge to make sure both sides are represented. The problem is when I try and represent a unpopular side and I try my best to represent that side people mistake me for some one that supports that side. And so some people treat me differently. Like take the Columbine for example people put most of the blame on the parents and teachers for what happened. But nobody thought what can be done to prevent this from happening again. And reguardless of what you may think they did not work on that. They instead of working on doing their best to prevent kids from being treated so bad that they resort to violence. They worked on identifying those types of kids early on so they could get them out of the school and some where else. The problem is that as it is kids are consantly bombarded with things and here is a list:
1. Parents expectations(as kids get older they feel pressured to do what their parents expect them to do)
2. Peer pressure(like trying to fit in or getting people to like you)
3. School pressure(with all these test we have now a days to try and make sure the next generation is smarter than the last we are putting more pressure on children that have little or no voice in anything that involves them)
4. Self pressure(where a kid is judging themselves to see what they could do better to please the people around them and they come down on themselves for letting people they care about down)
5. Future pressure(this is obvious it is pressure to decide what they want to do in the future and the pressure to do something that will please the people around them and themselves at the same time and in some cases they have to choose between what they want for themselves and what every one else wants for them)
And on top of all that we have to face the facts that people are just plain mean and that some get enjoyment out of making other people feel horrible. I could go on but I doubt any one will read this or if they do if they will even care so this is it for now if you want me to talk more feel free to post and i will respond ok.